Losing a loved one is one of the most challenging things a person is likely to experience; there’s no other sense of loss that can compare to no longer being able to see with your own eyes, hear, touch and speak to that valuable person. However, death is inevitable, and all one can really do is come to accept it and move on because there’s no way for a person who has passed on to return to the world of the living.
The impact of death is different for everybody, though; there are people who are easy to let go, knowing that a loved one’s absence in the flesh means being present in a much better place – a place without weeping, hurt and pain. And then there are those who know that, perhaps due to the conditions prior to death, the loved one’s soul would be “in unrest.” It’s important to mention, as well, that there are people who really just cannot deal with the departure of a loved one and the idea of the rest of their lives without that person they loved and remain to love greatly is very much like the death of their joy.
For all those who are struggling with the impact of death in their lives, and long for closure, speaking to past loved ones can bring assurance and peace. There are those who are blessed with this experience through dreams; the loved ones appear in a dream to deliver a message that all is well with them and they wish for the living to likewise be well, or at times, deliver a message explaining why their soul is “in torment.” Needless to say, such an experience brings clarity to how the living can move on after the dream.
The latter situation, however, often presents a task for the living to accomplish so the soul in torment can also find peace. The task is usually complicated and confusing; people who are required by the loved ones in unrest in the realm of the after-life to fulfil their “request” usually struggle with it and cannot simply rely on their instincts.
For this problem, the guidance of people who have the ability to connect to the other realm, such as psychics, is an available solution. Through various methods (tarot card reading, séances, and others), they can present a clearer message for the living from the departed loved ones so that the task that needs to be done, no matter how simple or hard it may be, can be carried out effectively. Those who are troubled by the situation of their loved ones in the after-life can derive some peace and closure from this connection, so that all of them – the living and departed – can finally move on.